When Eric and Janell Adjepong were dating, she asked him to cook for a dinner party she was hosting. He’d been a professional chef for years, so of course, he obliged. As they were getting ready for the event, he noticed how Janell brought her love of interior design to the event, beautifully setting the table and putting all of the finishing touches on the evening. That night, they decided to join forces and start their dinner party service,Pinch and Plate, with Janell handling the decor—like stunning tablescapes with candles and unique artifacts—and Eric serving up delicious, artful plates.

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5 Tips for Hosting a Holiday Party

Keep the Decor Simple

Don’t overdo it on the decor. “I know people go on Pinterest and they see these wonderful, fabulous things, but don’t feel like you have to do all of that to have a nice dinner party,” says Janell. “Candles and flowers always work.” (Flowers are alsoone of the items our editors buy for a stress-free holiday season.)

Plan Ahead

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Working ahead is key. Janell recommends doing an inventory at least a week before your event. “Compare the number of guests with what you have, so if you’re short, you have time to pick up what you need.” Eric suggests finishing 80 to 90% of your cooking the day before, so you can exude confidence: “Guests can feel if the host is frazzled.”

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Get Help If You Need It

Hire help if you need to, whether it’s a chef to prepare the meal or someone to clean your home. “People are usually stressed trying to do everything themselves and it’s simply not worth it,” Janell says. “And it typically results in the host not being dressed in time, burning a dish or forgetting smaller details.”

Serve a Big-Batch Cocktail

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Have a batch cocktail ready when guests arrive, like thisSlow-Cooker Mulled Wine. “Put it out so they can just pour it into their own cups to keep it easy,” Eric says. For other big-batch cocktail ideas, try ourRed Sangria.

Figure Out the Tunes

Don’t forget the music. “Create a playlist that extends beyond the time of the party so you don’t have to think about it—even if some guests stay after dinner is over,” says Janell.

The Menu

01of 06Slow-Cooker Mulled WineVictor ProtasioView Recipe02of 06Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon VinaigretteVictor ProtasioView Recipe03of 06Butternut Squash Risotto with MascarponeVictor ProtasioView Recipe04of 06Red Wine-Braised Lamb ShanksVictor ProtasioView Recipe05of 06Cumin-Roasted Carrots with Dill YogurtVictor ProtasioView Recipe06of 06Malva PuddingVictor ProtasioView Recipe

01of 06Slow-Cooker Mulled WineVictor ProtasioView Recipe

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Slow-Cooker Mulled Wine

Victor Protasio

Mulled Wine

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02of 06Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon VinaigretteVictor ProtasioView Recipe

02of 06

Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette

Arugula & Fennel Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette

03of 06Butternut Squash Risotto with MascarponeVictor ProtasioView Recipe

03of 06

Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone

Butternut Squash Risotto with Mascarpone

04of 06Red Wine-Braised Lamb ShanksVictor ProtasioView Recipe

04of 06

Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks

Red Wine-Braised Lamb Shanks

05of 06Cumin-Roasted Carrots with Dill YogurtVictor ProtasioView Recipe

05of 06

Cumin-Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt

Cumin Roasted Carrots with Dill Yogurt

06of 06Malva PuddingVictor ProtasioView Recipe

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Malva Pudding

Malva Pudding

Lenore T. Adkins is a Washington, D.C.-based food writer.Currently a judge on Battle of the Brothers, chef Eric Adjepong is writing two cookbooks due out in fall 2022.Janell Adjepong has limited event planning during the pandemic to her friends and family.

Lenore T. Adkins is a Washington, D.C.-based food writer.

Currently a judge on Battle of the Brothers, chef Eric Adjepong is writing two cookbooks due out in fall 2022.

Janell Adjepong has limited event planning during the pandemic to her friends and family.

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